Ngaziqhatha ne Sende

Sawubona bakwethu, ngingu-admin we-Bayede Zulu, indawo yethu lapho sikhuluma khona ngodaba lwezocansi ngendlela evulekile, engenacala futhi ethandwa yibo bonke abadala abathanda ukufunda ngezinto ezishisayo phakathi kwamashidi. Namuhla ngifuna ukunabelana nani ngolunye uhlobo lokuzijabulisa okungenza umuntu aziqhatha ngesende sakhe indaba eqondene nokwenza ucansi ngendlela eqinile, ejulile futhi engapheli ngokushesha.
Kwakukhona insizwa engiyibiza ngokuthi uMluh (igama eliyimfihlo, njengoba sonke sazi ukuthi lezi zindaba zifuna ukuvikelwa). UMluh wayengenye yalezo zinsizwa ezazi ukuthi zenzani embhedeni, hhayi nje ngokuba nesende esikhulu kodwa nangokwazi ukulisebenzisa kahle. Kwathi ngolunye usuku, saba bodwa endlini, umoya usushubile, sakwazi ukuthi kuzokwenzeka okuthile okusha.
Wa ngiqala ngokungibamba ngezandla zakhe ezinkulu, wangifaka phakathi kwemilenze yami ngomunwe wakhe wokuqala. Ngathi ngizwa ewuphusha ungena half, ngavele ngakhala kancane ngoba phela umzimba wami wawungakalungi ngokugcwele. Kodwa yena wayazi ukuthi kumele enze njani – waqala ngokufenda kancane, umthondo wakhe umkhulu kangangokuthi wawungenwa kancane kancane njengoba efenda. Ngangilokhu ngikhala ngokuthi "Aweeee... Mluh... aaaaaah... aaaaaah..." ngoba inquza yami yayivele isha into emhlophe, imanzi ngokwedlulele.

Lapho esezoqala ukunyusa izinga, wehla ngempoqo eyodwa ejulile: phaxaa... phaxaa... faxhaaaa... Oooh my goodness, bengizibuza ukuthi uyifundephi yonke lento. Wayeshaya isinqa sami ngempela, ngizwa phaaaaaa... phaaaaa... phaxaaaaa... faxhaaaaa... Ngangithi "Aweee bbe... aweeeee... maaah... aweee... shesha phela bbeee... kumele sambe!" Kodwa yena wayengezwa, efenda strong ngendlela eyenza inquza yami ibhejwe ngokuphelele, iphela kancane kancane ngokumnandi.
Emva kwesikhathi, wakhipha umthondo wakhe, wangishaya ngawo izinqa zami, wangiqukula ngokushesha. Wangibeka phezu kombhede, wangikanyusa umlenze ngibheke phezulu – inquza yami yamjamela phambi kwakhe, imanzi kakhulu inento emhlophe eqandayo. Umthondo wakhe nawo wawumhlophe, ulukhuni futhi ukhombha ngqo lapho. Wabamba ngesandla, wangibuka kahle phambi kokuthi awufake aphuse ngempela.Lapho... ngavele ngabamba umqamelo wombhede, ngawucindezela ngadonsa amashidi ngamandla. "Aweeee maaaah... aweeeee bbe... aaaaay... ayiiii my love!" Ngangiqala ukudliwa kanjena, ngaze ngaziqhatha ngesende sakhe. Wayechama phela, "Oooooooh yessss bbe... Chama bbe... sizoba late..." Ngasho ngaqhaqhazela, ngabamba inquza yami namashidi, ngakhala kakhulu. Ngambamba ngamcindezela kimi, ngachama naye ngimuzwa ebhonga ngasendlebeni yami "Aaaaàaaaah... aaaaaaah..."Walala phezu kwami, "Aaaaaaah bbe..." kusho yena. Umthondo wakhe ngangiwuzwa usadikiza phakathi, futhi i-bean yami (leyo nto encane eshisayo) yayilokhu ishay' ama-hazard ngokumnandi.

Lokhu kwakuyinto engingasoze ngayikhohlwa. Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ucansi oluhle kumele lube nezigigaba eziningi noma izinto ezifanayo, kodwa empeleni, kudingeka umuntu owaziyo ukuthi asebenzise isende sakhe ngendlela efanele – ehamba nge-pace eyodwa kodwa eqinile, ejulile futhi engapheli ngokushesha. Lokho kwenza umuntu aziqhatha ngempela, akhale ngokumnandi aze aphelele.Kulabo enu abafunda le blog njalo, niyazi ukuthi ngikhuluma ngqo nangempela. Uma nina nizwa njalo ngesikhathi socansi, nabelanani ngazo ezindabeni zenu ezifihlekile ngaphansi kwezibalo, ngingafunda futhi ngibuyele ngazo kwezinye izindatshana. Khumbulani ukuthi ucansi oluhle ludinga ukuvumelana, ukuthandana kanye nokwazi umzimba womunye umuntu.
Ngiyabonga ngokufunda, bakwethu. Hlalanini kahle, futhi qhubekani nokwenza izinto ezishisayo ngendlela ephephile.